Jurnal mariarapti, 23 Feb 12

Lose the weight and focus on being healthy. There are many technologies out there that help woman have babies. Keep a positive attitude and you can always get a second opinion. You don't know what the future will bring. 

I have turned to working out and getting healthy to try and deal with my infertility (6 years trying, we both have issues). In the end I feel good about myself after a good workout day and some of the stuff wrong with my has been found to change with weight loss. I feel for you, hang in there. 

Looking after myself through diet and exercise is the main way I feel I can get some kind of control over my body and fertility issues. Its also a great aid to fertility. After 4 years of trying I know how hard it is to deal with, try to stay positive.  

Awe I am sorry to hear that, but so true there are so many alternatives even when the doctor says a negative. Stay positive, I have several friends who were told there wasnt a chance, and they have children. Stay healthy and positive and let god work in your situation. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!! :) 

I agree with AHOT34. I have 3 friends that have had surprise babies after being told they couldn't. One after trying 8 years. all in their late 30's/early 40's. Take care of you, body and soul, and the universe will find a way when you're ready. 

Remember the Dr said 50% of the women with your condition, not 100% ! Loose the weight you want to and focus on that for now. I am jealous of your 50% !! I have endured 7 IVF cycles in 5 years and 2 lost pregnancies - we are numb about it all and now broke too .. you have to keep a good attitude or it will make your life hell ... your attitude will make all the difference!  

thank you very much for your kind words. and you are right, there is always hope. It's amazing how much support you can find through the internet, and people you have never met. Thank you 

Keep God in your life. Having children and everything on this world happens whenGod decides and he has made decisions concerning you and children before you were thought about before your parents were born. As for hope my in-laws tried for 4 years and finely gave up it was when they quit trying so hard and she was told she could not have any children during this time. The doctors were wrong after the 4 years of no luck she got pregnant and hand a healthy baby boy then in the next 3 years she was blessed with 3 more pregnancies. So as the saying goes in our family "it took 4 years of trying and then 4 years of learinig not to have kids". All in all the lord will bless you in time and you will be surprised how it happens. Kim